How do we form romantic bonds? Investigating the effect of attraction on social cognition

Abstract

Emotions significantly influence our perceptions and interactions with the environment, yet the impact of our emotional states on judging and responding to others remains underexplored. In this thesis, I examined how (romantic) attraction influences our attention (Part I), how we judge others’ intentions (Part II), and whether mimicking another facilitates bond formation (Part III). In two empirical chapters, I demonstrate that people have a strong attentional bias towards visual attractiveness and a tendency to indicate interest in establishing a romantic connection to attractive others. In the subsequent empirical chapter, I show that men are more likely to judge women they find attractive as more sexually aroused. Crucially, in a real-life dating study, I show that men who are attracted to another are more likely to assume mutual interest. Further, I introduce a framework suggesting that people align their actions and emotional states with others to foster romantic relationships. The final empirical chapter suggests that mimicking the attraction cues of others enhances bond formation. Overall, this dissertation sheds light on how attractiveness and attraction affect our attention, our social cognition, and the synchronization of actions and emotions, offering insights into the mechanisms underlying romantic connections.